" If anyone tells you that a certain person speaks ill of you, do not make excuses about what is said of you but answer, "He was ignorant of my other faults, else he would not have mentioned these alone. " Epictetus The Stoics were known for their wise aphorisms. Epictetus said things like, " Wealth consists not in having great possessions, but in having few wants" and " It is unrealistic to expect people to see you as you see yourself." These are valuable lessons, but so serious, dealing with topics of life and behavior. You might read the Stoics and come away thinking they were all so earnest, so sober. " He who laughs at himself never runs out of things to laugh at. " Epictetus In reality they had a good sense of humor, but not the kind we often encounter today. They didn't delight in the misfortunes of others. They didn't find humor in seeing others suffer. They teach us that being able to laugh at ourselves, to not take ourselv
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